Start from here... you can change your mood.

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We want to change, but do not know how. We want to change, and think how we will change in the future. We want to change, but the change does not last.

You can only ever start from here. Where you are right now. If you are not in the best mood at this moment. Then change it. I know this sounds hard because when I am in a bad mood, then I know it and I still can't change it because that is just how I feel.

But here is the thing... to be awesome, and I mean this in the widest possible sense of the word then you have to be able to overcome a bad mood. Because I know my mood can swing from dark to happy in a short space and I have to wonder... what?, how?... and most times it is external interaction.

Predict or commit. Find an external entity and engage.
Bring your finest to this moment.
So when you are caught in a situation where you are annoyed and the people around you are not helping the situation. Then pick one person or pick one element in your surroundings (the music, the light, pick anything to focus on). Then either predict an outcome or commit to making a definite change in the current situation... now. And then make it happen. Even if you are alone and no one is watching. Even if it is just you and this reality. Do the same. Bring your finest to this moment.

You will feel different afterwards... and then anything is possible.

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